Bisexual Swingers and Amateur Swinger

Usually a female amateur swinger will start out as straight, unless she has bisexual tendencies even before her entry into the swinging lifestyle. She would have no exposure to bisexuality, no identifiable signs of bisexualism, and no expressed desire for bisexual sex. 

As the female amateur swinger continues to immerse herself in the swinging lifestyle, latent bisexual tendencies come alive. This results in the amateur swinger joining the ranks of bisexual swingers.  What brings about this bisexuality, no one is really sure but reasons range from an intense appreciation for another woman’s body resulting in a strong sexual expression, a strong sense that only a woman can know how to really pleasure a woman as they share the same anatomy, to the more practical reason of having the best of both cocks and pussies. 

People in swinger relationships usually have to accept that females are more prone than males to become bisexual swingers, or at least, the females find it easier to admit to being bisexual.  Among male swingers, admitting to being a bisexual is like a death sentence for your mixed-sex group orgy; the straight males would be very hesitant to be in the same room and in the same bed with you.  Whether we acknowledge it or not, homosexuals can be friends with straight males but homophobia is still a very strong factor in swinging among males. 

Thus, s winging bisex couples usually advertise themselves as the female being bisexual and the male straight.  Usually, they will look for a single female for a ménage a trois especially when the female is a dominatrix; otherwise, they will look for other swinging bisex couples for a swinging wives gang bang or a group sex.

There are many myths about bisexual swingers.  First, bisexual swingers cannot have good relationships because their emotional and sexual needs can only be satisfied by the two sexes, which make for an untenable situation.  This is untrue as bisexual swingers can maintain a stable primary relationship with either a man or woman and let other amateur swingers satisfy her other needs.  Second, bisexual swingers have greater risks of carrying and transmitting sexually transmitted diseases due to their greater exposure to both sexes. 

Again, this is untrue as bisexual swingers have the same risks as any amateur swinger when it comes to STDs, particularly when safe sex is not practiced.  Third, bisexual swingers and other bisexuals are a threat to homosexuality because they are neither here nor there.  There seems to be a Bush-like mentality among homosexuals in this “If you are not with us, then you are against us”, which makes bisexuality a matter of human politics rather than a matter of human sexuality. 

If you want politics, there is always Washington, D.C. where politics is the name of the game or in Houston, Texas (TX) and Cheyenne, Wyoming (WY) where private swingers club are being banned, but the bedroom is something else entirely.

The point I wish to get across is that we are all sexual people, some of us more sexual than others, and it is this sexuality that must be expressed if we are to acknowledge all sides to our humanity. 

Now if some of us have overflowing sexual love for all the sexes and choose to act on it, then we should respect that choice if we also want to be respected for our choice to be heterosexual or homosexual.